28 January_IGNITE YOUR DAY : The Cost of Unforgiveness

IGNITE YOUR DAY : The Cost of Unforgiveness 

Key Text: Hebrews 12:15

"Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled."

This week, we're focusing on "Unlocking the Door to Healing." Today, we'll explore the "Cost of Unforgiveness."

Our key text is Hebrews 12:15:

"Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled."

This verse warns us about the dangers of bitterness, likening it to a root that can cause significant trouble.

Today, we'll explore the high cost of holding onto unforgiveness:

Firstly, Unforgiveness Separates Us from God's Grace.

Matthew 6:14-15 states: "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."

This verse emphasizes that God's forgiveness is directly linked to our willingness to forgive others.

Unforgiveness creates a barrier to the flow of God's grace into our lives.

Secondly, Unforgiveness Breeds Bitterness.

Ephesians 4:31-32 warns against bitterness, wrath, anger, and evil speaking. These negative emotions are often rooted in unforgiveness.

Bitterness is like a poison that can contaminate every aspect of our lives.

Thirdly, Unforgiveness Harms Relationships.

Romans 12:18 encourages us to "live peaceably with all men." Unforgiveness disrupts relationships, creating barriers between individuals and leading to strife and conflict.

Unforgiveness can damage family relationships, friendships, and even workplace dynamics.

Fourthly, Unforgiveness Leads to Emotional and Physical Harm.

Proverbs 17:22 states: "A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit dries up the bones."

Holding onto unforgiveness can lead to increased stress, anxiety, and even physical ailments.

Finally, Unforgiveness Stifles Spiritual Growth.

Romans 12:21 states: "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Unforgiveness hinders spiritual growth by focusing our attention on the offense rather than on God's will.

Forgiveness is not just a suggestion; it's a crucial component of a healthy and fulfilling Christian life. It's the only remedy for the poison of unforgiveness.

By choosing to forgive, we set ourselves free from the burdens of bitterness and experience the true freedom and healing that God offers.

I invite you this morning to choose forgiveness, to release yourself from the grip of bitterness, and to experience the abundant life that flows from a heart filled with grace.

May God bless you as you embark on this journey of healing and reconciliation.